A BRIEF HISTORY
I MARRIED MY HUSBAND PETER AT 20. HE WAS 25 AND ALREADY VERY SUCCESSFUL. HE WAS PART OF THE SILICON VALLEY EXPLOSION AND
WE LIVED VERY WELL.
AT 30 WE HAD TWO SONS. ONE 5 AND ONE 4. WE LIVED IN A LOVELY HOME
AND LACKED FOR NOTHING IN A MATERIAL SENSE. PETER WAS A GREAT
PROVIDER.
I WAS ALSO MISERABLE. PETER WORKED HARD AND PLAYED EVEN HARDER AND
LITTLE OF HIS PLAY INVOLVED EITHER HIS WIFE OR HIS SONS. HE WAS LIVING
THE LIFE OF A SINGLE MAN.
I WAS MISERABLE AND TOOK TO BEING A NAG AND MY GETTING EVEN WAS
TO DEPRIVE HIM OF ANY FORM OF SEX WITH ME. A WEEK AFTER OUR
TENTH ANNIVERSARY WE BEGAN SEEING A MARRIAGE COUNSELOR IN AN
EFFORT TO SAVE OUR MARRIAGE FOR THE SAKE OF OUR SONS. THE FIRST
THREE MONTHS OF OUR SESSIONS ONLY MANAGED TO MAKE THINGS WORSE.
AFTER ONE SESSION WHERE PETER SAID ONLY TWO WORDS IF THAT, AND I HAD RUN ON AND ON THE COUNSELOR STOPPED ME AND ASKED PETER HOW
HE FELT. HE SAT FOR A FEW MINUTES AND THEN STOOD UP AND YELLED
" I JUST WISH SHE WOULD GROW SOME BALLS AND STOP WHINING"
AFTER HE SPOKE HE STORMED OUT. I SAT IN SHOCK FOR SEVERAL MINUTES
BEFORE I LEFT.
LONG
STORY SHORT WE BEGAN ACTUALLY TALKING. ONCE PAST THE ANGER HE COULD
TELL ME HE WANTED ME TO REIN HIM IN. WANTED ME TO GIVE HIM
CONSEQUENCES
FOR HIS BAD BEHAVIOR. I BEGAN READING ABOUT WIVES WHO SPANK THEIR
HUSBANDS. WHILE WE SPOKE OF THIS IN GENERAL TERMS PETER CONFESSED THAT
FOR THE PAST FEW YEARS HE HAD BEEN SEEING
A WOMAN WHO SPANKED HIM. THERE WAS NO SEX ONLY SPANKING AND HE ASKED ME TO SPEAK WITH HER. BECAUSE HE WAS SO OPEN I AGREED.
I
MET MS X I SHALL CALL HER AND SHE WASNT ANYTHING I EXPECTED HER TO BE.
SHE ASSURED ME THERE WAS NO SEX AND THIS WENT BEYOND SEX FOR PETER.
THE
NEXT STEP WAS HARDEST SETTING UP RULES WITH PETER AND THEN WHEN HE
BROKE A RULE SUCH AS BEING HOME FOR DINNER AT THE AGREED UPON TIME. IT
TOOK TIME BUT FOR THE PAST FOUR YEARS WE HAVE REFINED THE RULES. THE ONE
THING WE DO NOT DO IS EVER MIX UP DISCIPLINE WITH SEX AFTER.
SPANKING PROGRAM FOR ANNA AND PETER
AFTER MUCH TRIAL AND ERROR WE NARROWED DOWN THE THREE AREAS
THAT WE BOTH AGREED NEEDED WORK FROM HIM TO MAKE OUR MARRIAGE WORK BETTER.
# 1 OFFENSIVE TONE. TOO OFTEN HE SPOKE IN A CONDESCENDING TONE
TO ME EITHER ALONE, IN FRONT OF COMPANY AND ESPECIALLY IN FRONT
OF OUR BOYS.
# 2 DISPLAYS OF ANGER THAT OFTEN SCARED THE BOYS AND EMBARRASSED
ME EITHER WITH OTHER FAMILY OR FRIENDS. LIKE ALL BOYS OUR SONS
WERE BEGINNING TO MIRROR THEIR DADS BEHAVIOR.
# 3 DRINKING AND DRIVING EITHER ALONE OR WITH FAMILY
SINCE
OUR BOYS SPEND EVERY FRIDAY NIGHT WITH HIS PARENTS WE DESIGNATE THAT
EVENING AS PUNISHMENT EVENING. PETER KNOWS TO GO AT ONCE UP TO THE
BEDROOM AND LAY OUT THE BELT, BRUSH , PADDLE, AND A RIDING CROP. HE THEN
UNDRESSES AND STANDS IN MIDDLE OF ROOM AND WAITS UNTIL I COME UPSTAIRS.
I CHOOSE WHAT METHOD I WILL USE AND THE TOTAL COUNT IS LEFT TOTALLY UP
TO ME. I CALL IT THE " UNTIL MOMENT"
THAT IS THE MOMENT WHEN I SENSE BY HIS TEARS, PLEAS OR ATTITUDE
I CAN STOP. AFTER A SPANKING HE PUTS AWAY ALL THE SPANKING MATERIAL
AND THEN STANDS IN THE CORNER TO MEDITATE FOR AN HOUR. NOSE TO WALL HANDS LOCKED IN THE SMALL OF THE BACK LEGS SPREAD APART.
AFTER
HIS CORNER TIME HE COMES DOWN TO DINNER AND WE RESUME A NORMAL EVENING.
THERE IS NEVER SEX OF ANY KIND. USUALLY WHEN WE GO TO BED THE OFTEN
CURLS UP AND TELLS ME HE IS SORRY AND THANKS ME FOR MY PATIENCE.
IN
THE PAST YEAR AS WE HAVE GROWN TO UNDERSTAND THESE NEEDS THERE ARE
TIMES WHEN AN IMMEDIATE SESSION IS NEEDED BY HIM. THESE USUALLY OCCUR AT
HIS OFFICE AFTER WORKING HOURS. I HAVE A STTER COME IN AND GO TO HIM
WHERE HE ASKS FOR WHAT HE NEEDS TO GROUND
HIM. THESE SESSIONS SEEM
TO PRODUCE THE TEARS MOST OFTEN AND AFTER ONE OF THESE SESSIONS WHEN WE
GET HOME THERE IS A LOVELY CALM AND HE OFTEN BEGS TO SERVICE ME WITH NOT
RELEASING HIMSELF.
